This is excellent analysis and advice; the point of not remaining and being stuck in victimhood is essential for recovery and healing. I think, however, that this movement forward can only happen when you have support. And care and love. And help.
Or to use an analogy of being stuck in a deep hole, which happens a lot, you need a helping hand to pull you out. This is especially necessary if someone has been stuck in a deep hole for a long time. Only then can a person know it can get better. We need to know first that we will get out of that deep dark hole, which is the first step of things getting better.
We each must do our own healing work (as in taking responsibility to be aware of what’s true for us), reaching out to others we can trust, and once stable ourselves be available for others.
What’s needed desperately is people who can self regulate. Too many people don’t know how, but when they can experience what it feels like to be in the presence of someone who does, they begin to realize it’s possible. They’ll want what you have.
“Each one teach one”
Plus bioresonance.
That’s all I got for now.
Perry, I deeply appreciate your thoughtful response and presence. Thank you 🙏
Hey Nancy, this is really good and really well written. Nice job. I feel like this article transcends so many areas of life/society that people will connect to. I still remember the first bully on the playground I came into contact with. It was eye-opening and I remember many of the reactions you mention here even back all those years ago. :)
You’ve said it all thanks for sharing this ❤️
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Can we be friends?
This is excellent analysis and advice; the point of not remaining and being stuck in victimhood is essential for recovery and healing. I think, however, that this movement forward can only happen when you have support. And care and love. And help.
Or to use an analogy of being stuck in a deep hole, which happens a lot, you need a helping hand to pull you out. This is especially necessary if someone has been stuck in a deep hole for a long time. Only then can a person know it can get better. We need to know first that we will get out of that deep dark hole, which is the first step of things getting better.
Yes, Perry. We won’t do this alone.
We each must do our own healing work (as in taking responsibility to be aware of what’s true for us), reaching out to others we can trust, and once stable ourselves be available for others.
What’s needed desperately is people who can self regulate. Too many people don’t know how, but when they can experience what it feels like to be in the presence of someone who does, they begin to realize it’s possible. They’ll want what you have.
“Each one teach one”
Plus bioresonance.
That’s all I got for now.
Perry, I deeply appreciate your thoughtful response and presence. Thank you 🙏
You hit the ball out of the park on this one, Nancy! It’s like we’re stuck in the 7 stages of grief for America. 🇺🇸
Thank you, Diane! The reason I wrote it is to shift the momentum forward. We can't stay stuck forever. Talking about it breaks the ice. I hope.
Hey Nancy, this is really good and really well written. Nice job. I feel like this article transcends so many areas of life/society that people will connect to. I still remember the first bully on the playground I came into contact with. It was eye-opening and I remember many of the reactions you mention here even back all those years ago. :)
Thank you, Mike. Sometimes you have to get granular before people get it….